Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Rough Day Rhyme



I'm sitting here and wondering
Why people act the way they do.
Was it just the way they were raised?
Did they grow up in a zoo?
I know sometimes it's hard
To keep your opinions to yourself,
But when you speak your thoughts out loud,
Could you please use words that help?
Do not be cruel or mean.
Think before you speak.
Instead of using hurtful words,
Please be kind and meek.
You never know who is listening,
Or what your words are teaching.
Little ears can hear you.
Be gentle when your preaching.

Photo above taken by my little buddy Graham.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Rainy day

Rainy Day
Go Away
Come Again Another Day
I miss the Sun
and the Blue Sky
Please Go Away before I cry
April Showers
Bring May Flowers
At least I have these
Pictures to brighten my day
and maybe yours
Happy Rainy Day!

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Spring Friends and Flowers


Usually I hate spring. It's just an annoying drawn out wait till summer. I love summer, I love fall, I love half of winter, but from Valentine's day till 70 degrees, I am miserable.
But this year is different. I have found a new group of friends. Caring and loving friends. Friends that email me when my daughter is sick offering anything they can do. Friends that send me links to new yummy vegan treats. Friends that respond to my messages instead of blowing off for days. Friends that are actual friends. I love them!
The friends have lightened my mood enough to just enjoy Spring. I can smell the flowers, and feel the warmth of the sun on my feet. (Even if it is through the window) I've been taking tons of pictures lately. I love to take pictures, but for a long time I had quit because no one seemed to look at them or care. Now I take pictures and I have friends who look at them, and love them, and comment. It makes me feel so wonderful. So loved. I want to thank you guys so much for taking the time. I do notice. I only hope that I can be as good of a friend to all of you as you are to me! Thank you!
These are the wonderful people who are changing my life for the best everyday, Justin, Roger, Anna, Caleb, Jane, Wednesday, Kristi, Q, D, Traigan, Dylan, Liz, Graham, (Gina not shown but still loved)
The Garfield Park Conservatory Orchid Show.




I'll post more orchid pictures throughout the week, they turned out beautiful, don't you think??

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Chillin' and Grillin'

In Indiana, the weather is very unpredictable. We have snow followed by sun followed by hail and so on. On Saturday, it was a wonderful 80 degree day. It was wonderful for a mid-April day. On my way home from work I picked up some veggies and some gas for the grill... and a case of beer. It was just fantastic. Wednesday was loving running around outside, picking 'flowers', and playing with her outdoor toys. My husband and I were loving just being together, relaxing and having some great food in the sunshine. It's the simple things in life that make me so happy. I hope everyone can enjoy some sunshine very soon. We are back to colder weather but that day was just what I needed.




Thursday, April 7, 2011

A little less interesting...

I've been skipping through blogs all day. Finding more and more interesting people writing about all their interesting lives. Feeling less and less interesting. I mean, really, my day today has consisted of picking barbies out of the laundry basket and cleaning up spilled milk. Now I'm spending nap time folding laundry. The chances of me travelling to beautiful far away countries or having a successful art studio are non-existent.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not sad in any way. Just not interesting. I find pure joy in an afternoon nap, or having the windows open during a thunderstorm. A cup of tea and an ipod full of Mumford and Sons will keep a smile on me. Is that boring??

But I am a tad jealous of some fellow bloggers. Wow, you guys are cool. And I love reading what you write. Thanks for that.

This is Wednesday, my daughter.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Why Vegan??

So a million people of asked why I became vegan.
Well, It all started when my daughter was about 1 month old. I breastfed her. I was having issues because my husbands family was completely unsupportive at first. So I started going to a breastfeeding support group at the hospital. Wednesday (my daughter) was getting red rashes on her abdomen. The nurses were always mentioning out babies were sometimes sensitive to dairy consumption from the mother. So I started paying attention to what I was eating when she would break out. Well I noticed that every time I ate anything with dairy as an ingredient, Wednesdays abdomen would brake out with redness and bumps. So out went the dairy.
My husband is an information freak. If there's anything he doesn't know everything about, he looks it up on the web. He looks at all the pro's and con's and then we talk about it. Since the main alternative to dairy is soy, all of our research started with that. When you research soy, you tend to see a lot of anti-meat research. Since Mitch was doing most of the research, he stopped eating chicken first, then gave up meat all together. The more he talked about it, I slowly (and I mean slowly) started giving up things. I just had a baby, so I was very sensitive to everything. So when he starts talking about slaughter houses and factory farming, I was like, ewww. Eventually, I started doing research on my own. I did not watch any videos, he did, and his descriptions where enough for me to handle. Instead, I read books. I started with 'Skinny Bitch'. Great book. But I still didn't want many details, so I skipped the animal chapters. But that book did get me to go completely vegan.
After about a year, and a lot of people asking questions, I was ready for some real research. I read books on serving sizes, fast food chains, vegan cook books..... then I read a book called, 'The Face on Your Plate'. Wow. That book gave me all I needed to know. It talked about each animal that is used as food, clothing and other products. How each animal lives in the wild, how they care for their young, their living habits, life spans, natural environment, everything, like it was talking about a human family. Then it explains how they live in the farms, it gave the differences between organic farms and factory farms, what they are fed, what is done to them, and then how they are killed. Very graphic. And that was it. Vegan for life.
It's funny how something as simple as information can change your life. It can change your view of the world. This subject is very important to me, and I do not take it lightly. When strangers ask me about it, I do not go into details. Most will try to combat me with their views, but when they have no facts to back it up, it only pisses me off. I can understand people who hunt, and kill their own food. I have no problem with that. I believe some people have a killing nature in them, and they see no problem with it. And if you are going to eat meat, then I would much rather you kill it from the wild, more power to you. But if you insist on arguing with me over a hamburger from McDonalds... Please, Don't. Because that place makes me so sick.
Something about this subject gets me so worked up. Enraged. Saddened. So I'm going to leave it at that. Maybe another day.